Two Different Personalities

First Snow!


As soon as the boys were born we began to recognize each boys' distinct personality and interest. Greg's most vivid memory of their birth is of Luke coming out screaming - and not a normal baby cry, but an ear piercing scream that reverberates in your head even after it stops. As a baby, Luke was demanding and intense - his newborn scream is the same sound that we hear from him today when he is really upset. For the first year of Luke's life, he only had 2 faces - stoic or a big sly grin. One of the first signs of Luke's acute observation and memory was sometime before his first birthday when we realized that he knew every one of his book's titles. He loved for us to call out a title and he would crawl his big little self (and he was quite big) over, pull it out and bring it to us. Shortly after our move to Colorado (around 18 months old) Luke took a huge interest in letters and numbers. He loved for us to write them on his Magnadoodle and he would tell us the name of the letter. Around that same time his particularness about certain things really came through - he was particular about what he would and would not wear (especially with shoes). This has continued today, he has very definite opinions about certain situations and has become a perfectionist in many areas, as a result, he gets easily frustrated. The first signs of his creativity and love of art emerged shortly after his 2nd birthday when he drew his first car. Our house has now become his personal art gallery and he must go through a ream of paper by himself every couple of months with all of the pictures that he draws. He has now started taping his masterpieces to the walls of the house. His creativity amazes us daily. He has started taking paper and cutting it into various random (or it looks random to us) shapes - after spending a good bit of time making a big mess, he then tapes those pieces of paper together in what turns out to be an obvious preconceived final product.

Luke's paper person that he taped together. Tonight Luke found some straws and said he was going to make straw pictures - he then taped the straws to the paper in various shapes and then taped those new masterpieces to the kitchen wall.

As a baby, Ryan was laid back and happy most of the time, but when he got upset he turned on the over dramatic wail, which he continues to use to this day. As soon as Ryan's personality began to emerge we discovered that he loves to perform for others. Once he was crawling, his favorite activity was to put himself in front of the camera or try and crawl up my leg when I had the video camera. He also loved being mischievous. Soon after the boys were crawling, I caught them both (but led by Ryan) unrolling an entire roll of toilet paper - Ryan's reaction to getting caught was to laugh and laugh about it. He also loved (and still does) to test his limits - one of our first power struggles with him was over playing with the buttons on the DVD player. He knew after the first time that he was not supposed to play with the buttons but he loved nothing more than to push them just to get us to tell him no, and then he would laugh. His silliness has only increased - Ryan loves to be funny and loves to make people laugh, he totally feeds off of it and once he gets going it is hard for him to stop. He is a very cute little boy and he knows it - he performs and I think he is going to be the class clown. Ryan is also much more analytical than Luke. He studies things and enjoys figuring out how to make things work. Last Christmas he got a truck that comes with a screw driver to change the tires - Ryan played with it the first day and worked on how to turn the screw driver to take the tires off and on. Luke didn't realize that the truck even did that until a couple of months ago but he got too frustrated to change its tires. Ryan is fascinated with electronics and anything mechanical, as well - he has a much longer attention span than Luke in most areas.

The above picture is of Ryan at the carved pumpkin display in Lubbock. Some group (I think the boiler makers?) had a display that included a turbine. I didn't even stop to look at it but when I realized Ryan wasn't with me, I found him intensely studying the turbine and the picture showing how it worked. He then asked me to take his picture of him next to it.



One of the best recent examples of their different personalities came up during our last trip to Lubbock. Ryan found a Jacob's Ladder and wanted to learn how to make it work. Nana spent quite a bit of time with him showing him how to hold it so that each wood piece would flip over to make the next piece flip the other direction. He watched what she did and then practiced and practiced and practiced until he could get it right himself. He was very fascinated on how it worked and wanted to understand how to do it himself. After Ryan was done playing with it, Luke (who had been in the room the whole time) asked to play with it. He proceeded to take the Jacob's Ladder and turn it into a prop for his own imaginative play story that he had going on in his head. He wasn't the least bit interested in learning how to use the toy as it was designed, he just wanted to add it to his own personal creative play.